The talk from Sherry is striking and inspiring. It provokes us to think about if we have been using the technology in the right way. Are we still trying to achieve the initial goals we set when we started - connecting more people? Or have we been lost in the technology mess and gone to the opposite direction?
When technologies are doing us many favors, we need to stop and think about is there something we paid off to trade for convenience, efficiency and connection.
As Sherry mentioned in her talk, We short-change ourselves, and over time, we seem to forget this and stop caring. We sacrificed the face to face communication for more connections, the connection with people we can only meet online.
Technology doesn’t add more hours to the 24 hours we have in a day, but take the hours we suppose to spend with our family and friends away from us. We are always busy, busy to built the “network” on the virtual world, which we think it can make us feel safe. For most of the cases, the quick and shallow communication doesn’t really go anywhere, besides exchanging of some interests and simple companionship. We should use the Internet as an extension, to deepen and maintain our relationship in the real life, not replace it. We should use the internet to develop meaningful friendships, not just show off the “number of friends” we have on social media. We should use the Internet to make our friends feel being closer, not alienated.
Another interesting point she touched upon is that: can machine really cares about us? Can its pretend empathy really helps us release our anxiety and feel not lonely? If we are proud of developing a toy seal to companion the seniors and the sicks; then it is a time we should feel sad and sorry about our society. If we are too busy with developing tools to provide humanity but not act friendly to people around us, then we will need to think seriously about if the technology is necessary and serves us for the right purpose. Just like Sherry mentioned we expect more from the technology and less from each other.
I hope this reading reflection can resonate with you and inspire you to develop a more self-aware relationship with technology, with each other and with ourselves.